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Plot Overview

Shoppersnativity scenemaking a listbell ringerwindow displayChristmas carolersMerry ChristmasTo the strains of, “The Holly and the Ivy, (When they are both full grown,”) the sleepy town of Old Bay­brook, Connecticut, is wrapping up their errands on Christmas Eve, the full grown adults putting on the annual holiday with the children benefiting. One child is missing. “There's supposed to be a baby Jesus in the manger,” says one kid, “but some­one stole it.” Bummer!

bookstandMarriage CounselingAbove the bookstore Village Books, a local marriage counselor Dr. Wong (B.D Wong) is conducting a session with a couple in their thirties: Lloyd (Kevin Spacey) and Caroline (Judy Davis) Chasseur. Caroline makes light of a tryst she'd had in the past saying that since it didn't mean any­thing to her, it shouldn't even be counted as adultery. Lloyd asks the doctor for a ruling.

The nerdy viewer might relate this to a ruling the apostle Paul was required to give back in Bible days. Jesus had elevated the status of marriage for believers, forbidding them from divorcing each other and going so far as to call a remarriage by such a believer adultery who had earlier divorced on paper another believer. When Paul came along preaching a good while in Corinth, he got a lot of converts who had never before even heard of Christianity so could hardly be expected to have set their caps to marry other Christians. A lot of mixed marriages resulted, so what would a believer do if her unbelieving spouse up and divorced her? Could she remarry or not?

I Corinthians 7In answer to the Corinthians' questions regarding the mixed marriages they'd entered into, the apostle writes of same as an occasion for a Christian to influence the unbelieving partner to convert, while remaining faithfully in the marriage. If the unbeliever splits, how­ever, the believer is free to remarry. Okay.

door wreathSanta winksSanta's giftThe above situations are not identical, but Paul does give an ancillary ruling applicable to a subplot in our film. A widow, he declares, is free to marry any eligible man, only she's to do so while being in the Lord. In “The Ref” towns­man George (Bill Raymond) dressed as Santa makes the rounds. He is feted with goodies not limited to cookies & milk; he can eat what­ever's on offer, but he must remain in character as Santa. When he gets drunk and mean, he forfeits his welcome. Pity.

star of DavidIt's as in a passage from Robert Tanenbaum:

“You got spaghetti sauce on your shirt, Goom,” said Karp. … ¶“It's marinara sauce and I wear it like a badge of honor,” replied Guma, lifting his chins proudly. “You're marrying a guinea, you should get used to it.” (79) … ¶“he was marrying a shiksa. They would hear the blast in Tel Aviv.” (137)

A Christian marrying a non-Christian is more a cosmetic difference than a Jew marrying a Goy. He has sanctified her and puts up with her peccadillos while his needs are being met. It's a badge of honor to him. In other times a Jew marrying a heathen was a major breach of their old covenant.

dinner

candlesRoman soldierMadonnaCaroline cooks a traditional Scandinavian dinner for family and guest. They observe the Feast of Saint Lucia who'd given away her dowry to the poor of her village rather than to her in-laws-to-be, and her offended fiancé denounced her to the Romans as a Christian, and they sentenced her to be burned at the stake. When she failed to catch fire, they stabbed her to death. Paul uses the general example of how badly an infidel treats a believer to caution Christians not to be yoked together with them in their churches. Individually he allows it, at least he doesn't explicitly prohibit mixed marriages, using a rhetorical question as a caution figuring most Christians will get it on their own.

Scrooge gifttwo presentstree w/presentsLloyd's mother Rose (Glynis Johns) got married by arrangement in the old country for economic reasons. She's a skin­flint and after her husband's passing has used her wealth to control her two sons, which caused Caroline to lose respect for her man. When for appearances their marriage counselor is impersonated by a burglar Gus (Denis Leary) on the run, he puts the mother in her place thus invigorating the marriage of her son she'd been stifling.

The police gain social grace watching, “It's a Wonderful Life.” Gus's wasted get­away driver Murray (Richard Bright) has been into the series, “Happy Days.” Gus looks forward to watching the Charlie Brown Special once he takes care of business.

Ideology

darkroomdecorated treehand crank ice cream makerTwo conflicts rear their ugly heads this Christmas. Rose owns the house she charges Lloyd exorbitant interest on, and she owns the antique business he manages. He needs to break free from her undue influence to gain his wife's respect. Lloyd and Caroline's sixteen-year-old, juvenile delinquent son Jesse (Robert J. Stein­miller Jr.) is a student at a military academy as no other school will enroll him. He's been black­mailing the Commandant Siskel (J.K Simmons) with some compromising photos he's got of him. That's got to end. Here is a family entering conflict à la, (Prov. 30:33) “Surely the churning of milk bringeth forth butter, and the wringing of the nose bringeth forth blood: so the forcing of wrath bringeth forth strife.” The idea in the proverb is that a state of peace and conciliation can change to one or conflict just as a liquid (milk) can change to solid (butter) through constant agitation (churning.) Or hit a critical area (nose) and it will bleed. The latter is illustrated in the movie when a Rott­weiler bites Gus on the rump as he's fleeing (“Did you know you're bleeding?”) and he needs some (ouch­less) Band-Aids. The former is illustrated when the clerk at the Village Store tells a customer they're out of egg nog, so the woman will have to make her own. Egg nog is concocted by beating together: (granular) sugar, (gooey) eggs, and (fluid) milk/cream to get the thick, creamy beverage. As applied in this movie, the commandant does some soul searching on Christmas Eve and decides to confront the black­mailer to put an end to it. And Lloyd finally comes to his senses and decides not to take any more guff from his mom.

Production Values

“The Ref” (1994) was directed by Ted Demme. Its screenplay was written by Richard LaGravenese based on a story by Marie Weiss. It stars Denis Leary, Judy Davis, and Kevin Spacey. Also featured are Glynis Johns and Christine Baranski. The main actors were primo, but the secondary actors did well, too. As a whole they were unbeatable.

MPAA rated it R for language. It was filmed at Niagara-on-the-Lake, Ontario, Canada. The limited number of sets were well done up. It has a run­time of 1 hour 37 minutes.

Review Conclusion w/a Christian's Recommendation

Xmas tree on floorThis movie was busy to the extreme. It had all the running around on Christmas Eve, bickering families in counsel, and a police dragnet of the town. Curiously, that worked in the movie's favor, because it's a comedy on many levels, so it might take multiple viewings to pick up on all of it. It got funnier the second and third time I saw it. This one's a blast!

Movie Ratings

Action Factor: Weak action scenes. Suitability For Children: Not Suitable for Children of Any Age. Special effects: Average special effects. Video Occasion: Christmas viewing. Suspense: Predictable. Overall movie rating: Five stars out of five.

Works Cited

Scripture is taken from the King James Version. Pub. 1611, rev. 1769. Software.

“The Holly And The Ivy.” Traditional, music first published by Cecil J. Sharp (uncredited), originally arranged by H. Walford Davies (uncredited.) Arranged here by Charles Thompson.

Tanenbaum, Robert K. Reversible Error. Copyright © Robert K. Tanenbaum, 1992. New York: Dutton, 1992. Print.